When her replacement was selected, through what I had learned through my training and mainly my volunteer work after LP, I knew that my new manager would not be like my old. I knew it would take a different focus from me to create the relationship that I wanted with my new manager. He was a results oriented person, willing to say whatever needed to be said to get the job done, even if it ruffled someone's feathers. I knew I was up for the challenge. I went back to the tools I learned in Advanced and LP and after 8 months things could not be better. What previously may have "rocked the boat" with me, I know not to take personally. I was selected as a Team Lead and have been excelling in this new environment. And, if something my manager says sticks, I still can get coaching from someone who is not in the thick of things, someone with the perspective and vision to be with me in a way to have me chose excellence over mediocrity.
The effectiveness at work has increased exponentially!
I wrote a letter to my president, CEO and director and I explained what I had been up against at work and then committed myself to their vision of the company and explained to them what I wanted in my career. I got to tell them exactly how I felt and what I was committed to and it felt great!
They have already approached me about a supervisor position, but I told them that the hours were not what I wanted and I want to be focused on technology, not supervising. They totally understood and I now have a lot of time to work on projects that I choose.
What I also realized is that I have the power to create the workplace environment that I want. My coworkers were playing victims and helpless and I told them that I won't put up with that anymore. Instead of using that energy to complain, we started coming together as a team and playing a winning game. The feeling that I get when I create that space of greatness for my company is connection, team, and most of all fun!
I'm currently in Leadership and it's really about living life as a leader. My director and manager acknowledge how I'm showing up at work since I've been in the trainings, so just the way that I'm being has opened up endless possibilities where I once thought I was "stuck" in my career.
Mike Brennan
NC 77
The beauty of it all is that recognizing and pursuing commonly conceived goals, with clearly defined roles, and open communication.....is fun! That simply perpetuates the cycle of success and happiness to repeat it, over and over.
Vince